My mom is literally the queen of privacy violations.
She reads ALL my text messages when I go to bed, or misplace it, or something similar.
She’ll login to my myspace (I have it so that you can just click once without typing and log in)
And once in a while go into my hotmail & yahoo accounts just to check whats up, oh and If I try to reset my password to anything else she does not know she will get EXTREMELY mad which often makes me to get into a rage aswell. If she tries to reset it and I chose a question which I can easily remember (Mothers maiden name) then she’ll just type it in without me even knowing for atleast a couple days.
One other thing that really bugs me is she will get mad over every little simple thing. When I mean mad I mean literally a EXTREME fit and she doesn’t have that bad of a temper (compared to me). For example if I decide to not leave the toilet seat down when I go to the bathroom she will nag and moan at me for a while. We only have one computer (my room) and she downloads TONS of useless crap onto my system, such as music thats a bunch of BS (to me) and pc games she NEVER even plays, she always used to get viruses too (not anymore thankfully to AVG). I even made a seperate account for her and she REFUSES to go on it. While my main account has everything for ME.
I do hide stuff from her because she does NOT need to know about my personal life, IE : Girlfriends, friends, etc. But I have always been honest for her and FORCES me to study, now im all down for learning anytime, but I ALWAYS (I mean always) ace standardized tests and have within the top, if not the highest scores. I keep reminding her that and even show her proof when the mail comes. But nope she assumes I always need something to learn which pisses me off and often gets me into a bad mood (this happens the moment I come home from shcool)
What should I do?
I love her very dearly, but this has gone out of proportions quite a few times, I am always nice, never complain, and always have a good attitude, what could be the problem?
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My mom is literally the queen of privacy violations.
She reads ALL my text messages when I go to bed, or misplace it, or something similar.
She’…
6 replies on “How to deal with crazy mom?”
you need to let her know that she doesnt need to invade your privacy like that! find out why she does it, maybe its trust. let her know that if you need to talk to her you will. and let her know that privacy is ESSENTIAL. maybe you should check out her emails and texts once in a while, just to piss her off. 🙂 and then tell her SEE HOW IT FEELS 😀
1) Create a calender that lists the number of day until you graduate COLLEGE.
2) Mark off each day until freedom.
3) Put up with every thing your mother does, for one day she will be dead and you will be glad you didn’t disrespect her even though she was crazy.
i dont know how old u are but if ur in high school i think u need to remind ur mom that soon enough ull go to college all by urself and she cant be there and therefore needs to give u space to get to know yourself. she wont be there forever. a mother can l ove a child without suffocating him
Wow. Seems like she’s got some privacy issues with you. It sounds like you’ve tried talking to her about it. I would just change your passwords and let her be mad about it. It’s your life, she needs to respect your privacy. Just prove her wrong, be a good kid, stay out of trouble, and get out whenever you can.
Maybe even share stuff with her about your day, what you did. If you have an open relationship, she may feel less inclined to snoop.
Well, there isn’t much you can do about the email or voice mail. Really, the fight to get your own privacy with those are not worth the trouble. Parents get hounded constantly on periodically checking them so in a “who has more right” battle, you will lose.
You may want to try extra-curricular activities. Those were perfect for me in high school because it allowed me a little more freedom with my friends. As long as I brought home the good grades, my folks were happy.
Choose one (or two) and see how she reacts. If she denies it, then you can confront her on the reason why you’re doing it.
If it comes down to it, maybe you can email yourself a letter and talk about your relationship with your mom and how you wish it could be and why.
Good luck.
She loves you so much and she just want thing to be ok for you,sorry but try to cope with her,she is still your mum