I am a smart, attractive 38 yr old woman. I am a professional and got laid off of my job for 8 months, so I am in a vulnerable stage now, and have alot of time on my hands. I am seeing this 27 yr old boy/man and he is very sexually attracted to me. I feel like were not dating= he only took me out once or twice and I thought- ok I can do this – use him for pleasure (safe/sex) and not get emotionally involved. So I started to sleep with him, even though I want a long term relationship and marriage- I know this is waste of my time. We are sexually attracted to eachother – he texts me daily big deal – hi honey…baby miss you…but all he does is come over get intimate and leaves and calls right after to make me feel good. He is obsessed b/c I have large breasts…so I guess he keeps coming back- I can’t do this anymore- my emotions are getting involved. I think he just says what I want to hear. Like the other day he goes want to go 4 coffee- Im in your area- so I said yeah give me 12 minutes..to get ready- he goes k Im only here in the area for 20 min- I call 14 min later- he goes “oh I left already” if he even missed me like his texts say- wouldn’t he wait? The intimacy is sooo good, I get pleasure- but is it worth my emotions? He is using me when it’s convenient..but texts me daily- whats this mean?
6 hours ago – 4 days left to answer.
Additional Details
To be honest I don’t want a relationship with him- too young not my type for marriage. So, that is the problem. Should I keep using him for sex- or let him go. After he leaves I get so mad b/c he never takes me out..and I think he just has it way to easy errrr…what do I do…keep using him or stop?
This item from Amazon might be of interest to you:
Melissa & Doug Deluxe Wooden Chomp and Clack Alligator Push ToyThis classic wooden push toy for tots is loaded with entertaining motions and sounds to help advance gross motor skills … More >>
Manhattan Toy Baby Stella DollThis classic wooden push toy for tots is loaded with entertaining motions and sounds to help advance gross motor skills … More >>
I am a smart, attractive 38 yr old woman. I am a professional and got laid off of my job for 8 months, so I am in a vulnerable stage now, and have…
Popularity: -0% [?]
Sounds like he’s using you. You may be enjoying it, but he is using you. The decision is therefore, are you willing to give up the sexual relationship to pursue a real one.
If you just want him for sex, then so be it. That is what it sounds like he is doing to you. But if you fear you are getting attached and there is really no hope for a relationship…cut it off.
Time to put on those big girl panties and do what is right for you.
Just think about how great it will be when you find a MAN with those “intitmate” skills AND wants a serious relationship! You deserve it, don’t settle!
Dump him not worth it