I need help for my baby bro. I don’t mean baby as in an actual baby but he has always been my younger brother so that’s what I call him. Anyway, he is constantly ripping my shoes right off my feet and throwing them across the room when he gets mad at me, he always takes my baby sister’s (actual baby) toys away from her telling her that “shes caused enough trouble as it is”
Um, help? Why is my brother such a pyschopath?
Also, I *have* tried hanging out with him more, giving him attention (being he’s a middle child, I thought he was just feeling lonely) and talking to him, being nice, teaching him stuff, protecting him, all that junk. But he will still throw my belongings around when the slightest thing is not right in his eyes. He says I’m the worst big brother, that I’m ugly, stupid, retarded, and my sister is the same. When my parents are around he goes crying to them after his fit of rage and I either get grounded or a stern talk.
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I need help for my baby bro. I don’t mean baby as in an actual baby but he has always been my younger brother so that’s what I call him. Anyway, h…
11 replies on “Little Brother Troubles?”
Don’t know why but a good Dr could tell your family
maybe he just has a bad temper. maybe hang out with him for a little bit or try to calm him down.
I’m not a family counselor or anything like that.
But I’d say that he has anger issues. Sit him down and talk to him, or get someone in the family that he trusts the most to talk to him and ask what’s bothering him, usually things like that are something in the subconscious on the brain that causes this.
I’ve had personal anger issues and it turned out that I did have a lot of things on my mind that were bothering me and I didn’t know about it.
Good Luck.
Tie him to an electric fence
because he needs a good brotherly beating.
I have 3 little brothers. and when we were all kids, I dished out beatings as needed.
If he licks all of your potato chips and then laugh at you, you stuff his face in the bag, and shove chip dust up his nose.
If he puts bugs in your bed, you put bugs in his shampoo.
If he rips off your shoes right out from underneath of you, you use his shoes to beat him in the head.
It sounds violent but your his older sibling, so its allowed.
🙂
maybe that’s his way of getting attention…..idk if he is the middle child but it seems like it and i know that alot of the time middle kids strive for attention and maybe acting out the way that he does is just his way of getting it …..like maybe feeling of neglection…so yea i really hope that this is some helpful information cause i know what your are talking about ….i’ve been in a similar situation 🙂
i have a similar problem with my brother too, who is also a middle child out of three.
i think he feels that since your new sister has come along, maybe he isn’t getting as much attention as he used to.
and is therefore taking it out on both of his siblings.
did he act like this before the baby came along?
it’s hard to tell, but i would say tell your parents to get him to try to see a therapist.
and as far as throwing your belongings, when he does it, grab his hands firmly, and sternly say ‘no’, and explain to him, that thats not appropriate behavior.
also, how old is he?
well, when he takes the baby’s toys, ask him why he does it, you might get a better answer from that than what i can give you.
anyways, good luck 🙂
How old is he? He does it because he knows it pisses you off, the next time he does it, don’t react just sit there calmly, matter of fact whenever he does something to you , other than hit, bite etc. to you, ignore it. He sounds like he is about 5 years old, if he was older I would tell you like I have others get his best friends phone number after you get the number tell your little brother you are going to call his best friend and tell them he pees the bed and has to sleep in diapers, this cures the problem.
danny is one of my favorite names by the way, just thought i’d let u know that. about ur brother, have u tried just ignoring him? it might teach him a lesson. if u wouldn’t get in troulbe for it that is.
Just smack him and tell him to knock it off.
I know what you mean. Try to show ur parents what he does to your younger sister, parents always feel more sympathy towards the youngest ones (sometimes). If you’re willing, set up a camcorder wihtout him knowing and record what he does. Try showing it to your paretns to prove your point. If that doesn’t work. totally ignore him and tell him ur planning to do so untill he behaves.